My Mother always says write down what you want and it will come to you, so here it is:

The Man of My Dreams Is… The Man of My Dreams Is NOT...

A Non-Smoker (of any kind, and no drugs)
Is a Nice dresser
Is Supportive Emotionally and other ways
Is Polite
Is someone I can trust
Is someone I can talk to/with
Is a Good cook
Is a Good Driver
Is Intelligent
Is musically or artistically talented (including poetry)
Is Financially Stable
Is romantic
Is Younger than I am
Is Handy

Not too tall or too short (between 5’7” and 6’)
Not Bald, or balding
Not too hairy on his body
Not conceited
NOT EVER Mean
NOT Gay or Bi
Not too loud or too quiet
Not too freaky, but enjoys sex
Not too prude, and won’t say no
Not a hypocrite
Not very political / Not a republican
Not religious
Not a fanatic about being handy

Not a workaholic
The Man of My Dreams Has… The Man of My Dreams Doesn’t Have…

Has a nice mother that is not overbearing
Has Brown Eyes
Has Brown Hair
Has a Great Smile
Has Nice cheekbones
Has a nice build
Has Good self-esteem
Has a Pleasant Smell
Has a Good attitude

Has a good job

Doesn’t have or want kids ever

Doesn’t have Jealous Exes or intruding female friends
The Man of My Dreams Does… The Man of My Dreams Doesn’t…

Does appreciate good talent
Does Love me for me
Does adore me
Does Appreciate and respect me & my jealousy
Does know how to give complements often
Does know how to spell
Does appreciate what I do for him at home
Does encourage my dreams to become famous

Does sweet things for me

Doesn’t dance
Doesn’t complain about finances
Doesn’t use words to hurt me

Doesn’t physically hurt me
The Man of My Dreams Likes/Loves… The Man of My Dreams Dislikes…

Likes Astrology and enjoys learning and discussing it with me
Loves to hear me sing
Likes to help people, but never before me
Loves Coffee
Loves Animals (Guinea Pigs and dogs especially)
Enjoys going to karaoke and is not tone-deaf, Maybe sings duets with me
Likes playing games with me (scrabble, dominoes, pool, etc)
Likes to receive Oral Sex
Likes Public Displays of Affection
Likes taking showers together
Likes to watch sitcoms
Likes to be around me a lot
Likes driving me around
Likes witty humor
Likes Country music enough to tolerate it
Likes to see me happy

Dislikes Religion (Christianity, etc)





Dislikes Giving Oral Sex


Dislikes Sports
Dislikes leaving me behind

Dislikes Stupid Humor
Dislikes Rap and Negative Music